Discover what leading voices in personal growth and psychology are saying about Morgan Schafler’s impactful book, “The Perfectionist’s Guide to Losing Control.” This groundbreaking work has garnered praise from #1 New York Times bestselling authors and renowned experts, all highlighting its unique and valuable approach to managing perfectionism.
Susan Cain, the celebrated author of Bittersweet and Quiet, hails the book as “the definitive guide for anyone who’s ready to walk a crucial pathway: from the appearance of control, to the possession of a quiet power.” Cain’s endorsement emphasizes the book’s transformative journey, guiding readers beyond superficial control to genuine inner strength.
Deepak Chopra, another New York Times bestselling author known for Abundance, extends an “irresistible invitation to reclaim your natural state of wholeness, your joy and your life” through Schafler’s work. Chopra’s praise underscores the book’s potential to unlock a more joyful and complete existence for readers struggling with perfectionistic tendencies.
Lori Gottlieb, author of the New York Times bestseller Maybe You Should Talk to Someone, offers a powerful perspective, stating the book provides “a valuable, much-needed perspective that gives you permission to be more in a world that’s telling you to be less.” Gottlieb’s commendation speaks to the book’s empowering message, encouraging readers to embrace their full potential without the constraints of perfectionism.
Holly Whitaker, bestselling author of Quit Like a Woman, sheds light on the book’s insightful analysis of societal pressures, noting that Schafler “lays bare provocative new insights into how ‘perfectionism’ is often just code for ‘women excelling too much.'” Whitaker further emphasizes the book’s practical value for high-achieving women, equipping them with “the strategies and mindset every high-achieving woman needs to quell her inner critic and embrace her true talents.”
For those anxious achievers, Liz Fosslien, coauthor of Big Feelings and No Hard Feelings, recommends the book as “an accessible, actionable guide for how to aim high without overthinking or punishing yourself along the way.” Fosslien highlights the book’s practicality and its focus on self-compassion, making it a valuable resource for those seeking ambition without self-criticism.
Jean Kilbourne, Ed.D., a respected author and cultural theorist, describes the book as “a thoroughly original approach to this important topic,” grounded in research and vividly illustrated by the author’s therapeutic experience. Kilbourne expresses a personal wish for the book’s earlier availability, recognizing its potential to be life-changing and recommending it to readers seeking positive transformation.
KC Davis, author of How to Keep House While Drowning, appreciates the book’s normalizing approach, stating, “We don’t need to be fixed, we just need a gentle guide to show us how to work with our unique personalities.” Davis recommends it as a top resource for anyone grappling with perfectionism, emphasizing its gentle and understanding guidance.
Finally, Tal Ben-Shahar, New York Times bestselling author of Happier, summarizes the book’s comprehensive nature, praising its “vivid storytelling, rigorous research, and deep analysis” which combine to provide “a practical guide that can help you learn, thrive, and flourish.” Ben-Shahar’s endorsement underscores the book’s blend of engaging narrative and evidence-based strategies for personal growth.
These accolades from diverse and respected voices solidify “The Perfectionist’s Guide to Losing Control” as an essential read for anyone seeking to understand and navigate their perfectionistic tendencies and unlock a more fulfilling and empowered life.
